“What if?”

This is a question that can torment people if they let it…

I’ve had recent examples of this and it isn’t good – Mine is a relationship “What if?….”

I met this guy ages ago, through my boyfriend at the time, and there was this mutual attraction that we both acknowledged at the time but there was nothing we could do about it so we just put it aside and went on with life. But it was always there if you know what I mean.  I’ve seen him a few times since I split from my ex and the feeling is still there but nothing can be done about it, which gets me thinking “What If” I had met him before he met his current partner?

Would my life have been completely different?

Would we be married?

Would I be happy?

“What if?” is a funny thing… cos you can always imagine the scenarios in your head but the reality is more often than not different from what the rose coloured glasses see…..